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| After Life: Ways We Think About Death by Merrie-Ellen Wilcox. Copyright 2018 by Orca Book Publishers. Ages 9-12; Lexile level 1120. |
Death is one of those concepts we hope our children stay ignorant of for a long while, but life doesn’t always work out that way. It may be a pet, it may be a grandparent, or - in truly unfortunate circumstances - it may be a classmate. When death comes into a child’s life, there are bound to be questions, but in an effort to preserve as much of their innocence as possible, we may give the impression that talking about death is taboo, causing their questions to go unanswered.
For older children, After Life: Ways We Think About Death is an honest, factual look at all aspects of death. Each respective chapter examines common beliefs about the afterlife, what death scientifically means and its causes, how science and medicine have affected life and death, manners of burial and how the body decomposes after death, funerary traditions in various parts of the world, and grief/mourning. Wilcox does an excellent job of balancing central facts with relevant sidebar tidbits - everything from stories of various mythologies to how the modern Western funeral industry developed to the hospice cat that always cuddled with nursing home patients in their last few hours. A thorough glossary and index is especially helpful for readers looking for specifics, and a resource list/bibliography provides further points of research, though none of the resources are specifically for middle grade readers.
After Life may currently be the only option for educating older children on death, but even were it one of many, it would still be a solid and well-researched option that is written with respect for reader and topic alike. This book would be helpful for readers who have lost someone themselves, who have a friend who is grieving, or who are simply curious about this rarely-discussed topic.




















































